random thoughts...
- old sayings may be passed off as passe, but am a firm believer in the saying which tells you not to put people on a pedestal because sooner or later... they come crashing down. have always preached about it to others....but there are some people you will always believe are not capable of certain acts.... but trust me, they are.
- On the other hand..... are there clearly defined rights and wrongs? are there certain things we know absolutely are wrong? a certain person told me the other day, that people are inherently not bad. no one wants to be hated. circumstances make you behave in certain ways. maybe that is not justification, but then in the world we live in, the last thing we can talk about is justification for everything thats happening. all you can do is try and understand why they behave that way... whether you want to forgive them or not is upto you
- the blocking mechanism is the best
- dependency on people is killing. you have only yourself. again 2 ways.... you're will probably be let down some way or the other..... but then again, why do we expect things from people? just coz people are there for you now doesnt mean they're obliged to be there for you later. be grateful for what you get?
- and amidst it all, your mundane life goes on.
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long-time reader, but first-time commentor here :-)
What's the blocking mechanism?
you block certain incidents/events, pretend they didn't happen... and dont think about it... yes i know its supposed to be unhealthy blah blah.. but its really not.
Did u get my phone number ??? Whats the emergency ??
yea i got ur no... and ship will tell u about the emergency... my curiosity just got the better of me:(
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